Back in the early 00s I had a coworker in my department who was in his late 40s. I was in my late 20s. All of us in the department would share music together back then by burning CDs. One day he gave me a CD of Jimmy Buffett songs. I politely listened to it, but found the music sad. "It's like he wants to leave his entire life and be by the ocean all day. I mean, I love the shore but I love my regular life too!" "You'll get it someday," he replied. A few years later BvP started working ...

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